Week 14: Relationship Advice ~ Trust

It's easier said than done but a relationship without trust is no relationship at all. I have learned first hand in past relationships that without trust you have nothing, your love will not last without trust because trust is the foundation and without a solid foundation your building will fall. You may ask why will it fall? Let's take this scenario:

"You find out that your partner had been cheating on you doesn't matter how long for but it has happened, most of us will often enough go for the self blame. What did I do or not do to make my partner cheat on me? I do not advocate cheating and I don't care your reasoning cheating is cheating plain and simple. Just because your partner don't give you what you want or need don't mean you get a free pass at cheating NO you DONT if your not happy and after talking about it nothing happens it's time to go so that once you free you can do what ever when ever. Now back to our scenario, after you forgive your partner and start feeling or know for a fact that you will never trust them again that's the time when the end or shall I say agony starts because:

1. Anytime they go out you start to imagine the worst
2. Anytime they talking to a friend on the phone you think something else
3. Every time they are late coming home or meeting up at agreed time you think something else

This is not and shall never be healthy, some of you might be saying I wouldn't even waste time thinking those things about my cheating partner but what you forgetting is you not thinking about them is also the end.

I will not claim to be an expert or even tell you how you should deal with it but I will share with you how I dealt with it in past relationships. Ladies that song by P!NK ~ blow me one last kiss! that speaks volume and I did it before pink sung it also Ceelo Green's cry baby ha!.I did the

1. I cried and died a little inside
2. I let go, I really had enough
3. I started to live my life, it's too short wasting on sh*t heads
4. I brought myself back into the dating world, I looked after and still do look after my happiness myself
5. I respect me first

So to end this unwarranted relationship advice post I wanted to say to you my readers, your priority should be number 1 = YOU, you are in charge of your own happiness. Until next time my lovelies, where ever you are happy day/night and blessings to God.

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::The Myrabev Life::: Week 14: Relationship Advice ~ Trust

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Week 14: Relationship Advice ~ Trust

It's easier said than done but a relationship without trust is no relationship at all. I have learned first hand in past relationships that without trust you have nothing, your love will not last without trust because trust is the foundation and without a solid foundation your building will fall. You may ask why will it fall? Let's take this scenario:

"You find out that your partner had been cheating on you doesn't matter how long for but it has happened, most of us will often enough go for the self blame. What did I do or not do to make my partner cheat on me? I do not advocate cheating and I don't care your reasoning cheating is cheating plain and simple. Just because your partner don't give you what you want or need don't mean you get a free pass at cheating NO you DONT if your not happy and after talking about it nothing happens it's time to go so that once you free you can do what ever when ever. Now back to our scenario, after you forgive your partner and start feeling or know for a fact that you will never trust them again that's the time when the end or shall I say agony starts because:

1. Anytime they go out you start to imagine the worst
2. Anytime they talking to a friend on the phone you think something else
3. Every time they are late coming home or meeting up at agreed time you think something else

This is not and shall never be healthy, some of you might be saying I wouldn't even waste time thinking those things about my cheating partner but what you forgetting is you not thinking about them is also the end.

I will not claim to be an expert or even tell you how you should deal with it but I will share with you how I dealt with it in past relationships. Ladies that song by P!NK ~ blow me one last kiss! that speaks volume and I did it before pink sung it also Ceelo Green's cry baby ha!.I did the

1. I cried and died a little inside
2. I let go, I really had enough
3. I started to live my life, it's too short wasting on sh*t heads
4. I brought myself back into the dating world, I looked after and still do look after my happiness myself
5. I respect me first

So to end this unwarranted relationship advice post I wanted to say to you my readers, your priority should be number 1 = YOU, you are in charge of your own happiness. Until next time my lovelies, where ever you are happy day/night and blessings to God.

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54 Comments:

At 27 February 2014 at 05:10 , Anonymous Highheels & Tutus said...

Totally agree that you need to watch out for yourself first. I think that with a lot of things, you will find a true partner for yourself if you focus on yourself and being who you want to be. Thanks for sharing
xx, High heels and Tutus
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At 27 February 2014 at 06:30 , Anonymous Miranda Malanga said...

Thank you for that high heels and tutus.

 
At 2 June 2014 at 06:50 , Anonymous Neilanderson said...

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At 2 June 2014 at 07:46 , Anonymous Mia Myrabev said...

Thanks Neil

 
At 4 December 2014 at 20:08 , Blogger Kimberly Bonham said...

Lovely blog post. I totally agree with you. Trust is very very important!

 
At 4 December 2014 at 20:52 , Blogger spiffykerms said...

Trust is a huge thing - and always listen to your gut. It is almost always right.

 
At 4 December 2014 at 21:43 , Blogger Caitlin Cheevers said...

Trust is SO important. As is loving and taking care of yourself. Thanks for sharing!

 
At 4 December 2014 at 22:26 , Blogger Alyssa Zapinski said...

Trust and honesty are key, for all relationships.

 
At 4 December 2014 at 23:37 , Blogger Angelic Sinova said...

Trust is HUGE! Not just in inmate relationships but in friendships, family basically every relationship. It's so important to trust the people you love and trust that they have trust in you as well <3

 
At 4 December 2014 at 23:58 , Blogger Natalie said...

"A relationship without trust is no relationship at all"--SO TRUE! I've been lucky to have some amazing partners--all of whom I trusted completely during our relationships--so I can't imagine the pain that would occur when a partner cheats. Terrible!

 
At 5 December 2014 at 03:14 , Blogger Stacy Bolton said...

It is a painful experience and you are so completely right. Great insight.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 03:14 , Anonymous ananda said...

totally agree. i am really lucky to be in an amazing relationship with my hubby, but i certainly had up & down days in earlier relationships haha! =)

 
At 5 December 2014 at 04:53 , Blogger Claire C. said...

Great advice thanks for your insight! Trust is SO important!

 
At 5 December 2014 at 04:59 , Blogger Angie Scheie said...

Agreed. I'm coming from a past marriage where trust was completely broken in a scenario not unlike what you wrote about. I tried to get back to a healthy relationship but it was impossible. Trust is priceless.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 06:10 , Blogger Karissa Ancell said...

Great post! Trust is so important. Someone I care about was cheated on a few times by her husband and I can never trust him now, I can only imagine how I'd be if my husband did that.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 08:31 , Blogger Chelsea Olivia said...

It's so true! I don't know how I could ever be in a relationship without trust.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 09:11 , Blogger Erica Marie said...

Trust is everything in a relationship! Great post!

 
At 5 December 2014 at 10:40 , Blogger Icar said...

Trust in any relationship is very vital. Not just for romantic relationships but also for friendship and even in family relationship. And as they say trust is earned and not automatically given...

 
At 5 December 2014 at 14:09 , Blogger Katie said...

Trust is so important. But if a partner leaves you a reason to doubt them sometimes it's impossible to get that trust back! Luckily I trust my partner with everything!

Katie <3

 
At 5 December 2014 at 15:57 , Blogger Brendy Beauty said...

Great post. Trust is something you absolutely need for a relationship to last.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:13 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you Kimberly

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:14 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I have learned over the years to trust my gut even when it doesn't make sense

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:14 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I think it's important to look after #1

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:15 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

No amount of love can save a r/ship if Trust and honesty are not present

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:15 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely, it's important in all r/ships in life, thanks for your perspective

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:16 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I sadly can imagine the pain but it takes two to tango

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:16 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you Stacy, it's definitely painful

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:17 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Every r/ship has it's ups and downs but it's the willingness to work for it and treasure it that counts

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:17 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:18 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

If both parties are not willing to overlook the past or can't even get past it there is no point in trying. Time out is needed maybe the future holds something different for both

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:19 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I think that is my greatest fear losing that trust for someone even though they are not your partner

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:19 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I do not think you can or even advocate it

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:20 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you and yes it is

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:20 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely, it is definitely earned and not automatic

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:21 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

It's when your partner makes you lose the 'benefit of the doubt' clause that makes things harder.

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:21 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you and yes to last trust but other factors are needed

 
At 5 December 2014 at 16:45 , Blogger debi said...

Trust and communication, those are the two top ones to me. :)

 
At 5 December 2014 at 19:06 , Blogger Candace Celmer said...

It's all about picking yourself up, knowing you worth, and finding an open heart again. xoxo

 
At 5 December 2014 at 22:15 , Blogger joy said...

Trust is everything. It's so, so important in any relationship, not just the romantic variety.

 
At 6 December 2014 at 17:59 , Blogger Rebekah Clarke said...

Without trust there is no relationship! xx

 
At 6 December 2014 at 18:45 , Blogger Missy said...

Trusting yourself and your intuition is key. Sometimes we all need a gut check once in awhile :)
Missy
Popofstyle.com

 
At 6 December 2014 at 21:39 , Blogger M. Mobery said...

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. Without that, nothing can result in positive results in a relationship. But it is also true that you have to be positive about yourself first and foremost.

 
At 6 December 2014 at 21:43 , Blogger Kendall Rayburn said...

Love this - trust is so important in any relationship. Romantic, or not.

 
At 7 December 2014 at 03:45 , Blogger Erin said...

Thank you for such an honest post!

 
At 7 December 2014 at 09:57 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Without communication any relationship will fall, its important to communicate and trust one another and both parties have to be willing

 
At 7 December 2014 at 09:58 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Could not have phrased it better myself, knowing one's worth can be a hard task but once you know its the best feeling ever

 
At 7 December 2014 at 09:58 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely important

 
At 7 December 2014 at 09:58 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

100% correct

 
At 7 December 2014 at 09:59 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

We could all do with some self checking I agree

 
At 7 December 2014 at 10:00 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Trusting yourself opens up revenues for others and knowing your self work is very important

 
At 7 December 2014 at 10:00 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely its not only those we romantically involved with but everyone else too

 
At 7 December 2014 at 10:00 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you for reading it

 
At 9 December 2014 at 00:39 , Blogger Ashley Taylor said...

Trust to me is the most important part to a relationship, it can make it or break it.

 
At 9 December 2014 at 06:11 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

It can definitely make it or break it

 

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